幸福在哪里?


小狗问妈妈:幸福在哪里?

妈妈说:在你的尾巴。小狗就追着尾巴跑,就是追不到。

小狗问妈妈为何它老是追不到幸福?

... 妈妈说:你往前走,幸福就会跟着你。

……有人兜兜转转一辈子,都没发现真正的幸福。


[不需要刻意追求的,安稳的生活
就是一种幸福。]

The feeling..

There is one thing that I am still curious since long time ago.. I don't know if any other people on earth ever feel this kinda of feeling.. I am really curious what is the feeling after death..
Do we still know who we are.. Do we still feel anything.. pain.. happy.. sad.. love.. etc.. Nobody on earth ever know it.. except those who already passed away..

I don't know why I come up with questions like this.. It was just suddenly come up in my mind.. Maybe because this month is Chinese Ghost's Month (people said); 七月.. well.. really want to know..
Is there any way to find out without being passed away? ;)
Call me crazy I don't mind.. I just really really want to know what is the feeling.. Do we still know every person that we've ever known.. Do we still love the person we love and feel sad because we left them.. hmm.. who can answer this? :)

~~~Curios-City~~~
why do i keep thinking of him while he is not mine anymore?
as the days passing i miss him more and more..
remembered he likes to lay on the bathtub during summer days..
remembered he sent me a necklace when he was going back to his hometown..
i still have it and that's the only thing that reminds me he was real, he was mine.. few years ago..
i couldn't forget about him.. sometimes i dream about him too..
dear darling.. do you sometimes think about me as well?
Sometimes I just think, how could love affect somebody's life? Is love really important? Can we live without love?
I realize lots of people out there think love as a win win game that people have to think 'bout the strategy before you moving on. Isn't it so weird since love is just a pure feeling and very basic feeling that every human has? Are you also think that love is just a game that you have to play on and try to win it? Ever play reversi? Ever play chess? Many people thought love is such one of those games.. too bad.. really feel sorry about it.

An Jing - Chow Jie Lun

**English translation:
Only the piano accompanies me throughout the day
The sleeping cello
Quiet and so old
I think you've made yourself clear
I know and I'm sure
You don't regret
You say you're upset too, that I don't believe
You being with me was in the past
I hope he loves you more than I do
Only then will I bring myself to leave

You want me to say it, but it is awkward
I don't even want to break up
Why must I depend on a smile to tide me through?
I don't have the ability
To accept both you and him
Don't worry too much
I'll still be fine
You've already gone far away
And I will slowly walk away
Why is it that I have to accommodate you even when [we] break up?
I really don't have the ability
Staying silent doesn't come so fast
I will learn to give you up
Because I love you so much

**Pinyin:
Zhi sheng xia gang qin pei wo tan le yi tian
Shui jiao de da ti qin
An Jing de jiu jiu de
Wo xiang ni yi biao xian de fei chang ming bai
Wo dong wo ye zhi dao
Ni mei you she bu de
Ni shuo ni ye hui nan guo wo bu xiang xin
Qian zhe ni pei zhe wo ye zhi
shi cheng jin
Xi wang ta shi zhen de bi wo
hai yao ai ni
wo cai hui bi zi ji li kai

Ni yao wo shuo duo nan kan
Wo gen ben bu xiang fen kai
Wei she me hai yao wo yong wei xiao lai dai guo
Wo mei you zhe zhong tian fen
bao rong ni ye jie shou ta
Bu yong dan xin de tai duo
Wo hui yi zhi hao hao guo
Ni yi jin yuan yuan li kai
Wo ye hui man man zou kai
Wei she me wo lian fen kai dou qian jiu zhe ni
Wo zhen de mei you tian fen
An jing de mei zhe me kuai
Wo hui xue zhe fang qi ni
Shi ying wei wo tai ai ni

**Traditional Chinese:
只剩下鋼琴陪我談了一天
睡著的大提琴
安靜的舊舊的
我想你已表現的非常明白
我懂我也知道
你沒有捨不得
你說你也會難過我不相信
牽著你陪著 我也只是曾經
希望他是真的比我還要愛你
我才會逼自己離開


你要我說多難堪
我根本不想分開
為什麼還要我用微笑來帶過
我沒有這種天份
包容你也接受他
不用擔心的太多
我會一直好好過
你已經遠遠離開
我也會慢慢走開
為什麼我連分開都遷就著你
我真的沒有天份
安靜的沒這麼快
我會學著放棄你
是因為我太愛你

Mathematics of Life


What do you honestly think?

ROMANCE MATHEMATICS

Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy
____________ _________ _________

OFFICE ARITHMETIC

Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime
____________ _________ ________

SHOPPING MATH

A man will pay $20 for a $10 item he needs.
A woman will pay $10 for a $20 item that she doesn't need.
____________ _________ ________

GENERAL EQUATIONS & STATISTICS

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
____________ _________ ________

HAPPINESS

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
____________ _________ _________

LONGEVITY

Married men live longer than single men do,
but married men are a lot more willing to die.
____________ _________ _________

PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.
____________ _________ ________

DISCUSSION TECHNIQUE

A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
____________ _________ ________

HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED

Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.

Teacher is a word called LIFE


It takes a teacher's life,
to make a school a home,
a place to be remembered,
no matter where we roam...

It takes a teacher's patience
to bring a student up right,
and their courage and cheerfulness
to make a dark day bright...

It takes a teacher's thoughtfulness
to mend the heart's deep hurts,
and their skill and endurance
to mend little hearts and souls...

It takes a teacher's wisdom
to recognize our needs,
and to give us reassurance
by their kind words and deeds..

And that is why in all this world,
there could not be another
who could fulfill God's purpose
as completely as a TEACHER!

God Bless You Teacher,
Today, Tomorrow... Always

Time can only add to
a teacher's kindness and worth..
And years can only prove
that you are the dearest one on earth..